Tuesday, February 11, 2014

Americans talking about single parenthood contribution to growing inequality

Good. The Americans are talking about growing inequality and the association with single parenthood.
Statistically single parents are the poorest group in society in NZ so this NYT article has enormous relevance.

The last few weeks have brought an unusual convergence of voices from both the center and the left about a topic that is typically part of conservative rhetorical territory: poverty and single-parent families. Just as some conservatives have started talking seriously about rising inequality and stagnant incomes, some liberals have finally begun to admit that our stubbornly high rates of poverty and social and economic immobility are closely entwined with the rise of single motherhood.

 But that’s where agreement ends. Consistent with its belief in self-sufficiency, the right wants to see more married-couple families. For the left, widespread single motherhood is a fact of modern life that has to be met with vigorously expanded government support. Liberals point out, correctly, that poverty rates for single-parent households are lower in most other advanced economies, where the welfare state is more generous.
I am immediately reminded of a substantial study of Swedish sole parents that showed despite their material standard of living being better, child outcomes were still worse.

That argument ignores a troubling truth: Single-parent families are not the same in the United States as elsewhere. Simply put, unmarried parents here are more likely to enter into parenthood in ways guaranteed to create turmoil in their children’s lives. The typical American single mother is younger than her counterpart in other developed nations. She is also more likely to live in a community where single motherhood is the norm rather than an alternative life choice.
Except single parent families in the United States are very similar to single parent families in NZ. All of the above applies here. In part because Maori families are very similar to African American.

 The sociologist Kathryn Edin has shown that unlike their more educated peers, these younger, low-income women tend to stop using contraception several weeks or months after starting a sexual relationship. The pregnancy — not lasting affection and mutual decision-making — that often follows is the impetus for announcing that they are a couple. Unsurprisingly, by the time the thrill of sleepless nights and colicky days has worn off, two relative strangers who have drifted into becoming parents together notice they’re just not that into each other. Hence, the high breakup rates among low-income couples: Only a third of unmarried parents are still together by the time their children reach age 5.
 Also complicating low-income single parenthood in America is what the experts call “multipartner fertility.” Both divorced and never-married Americans are more likely to repartner and start “second families” than Europeans, but the trend is far more common among unmarried parents. According to data from the Fragile Families and Child Wellbeing Study at Princeton and Columbia Universities, over 60 percent of low-income babies will have at least one half sibling when they are born; by the time they are 5, the proportion will have climbed to over 70 percent.
 "Multipartner fertility" here is borne out by those statistics from yesterday showing how many teenage single parents on welfare would go on to have another child.

All of this would be of merely passing interest if it weren’t for the evidence that this kind of domestic churn is really bad news for kids. The more “transitions” experienced by a child — the arrival of a stepparent, a parental boyfriend or girlfriend, or a step- or half sibling — the more children are likely to have either emotional or academic problems, or both. (My own research indicates that boys, especially, suffer from these transitions.)
Part of the problem is that a nonresident father tends to fade out of his children’s lives if there’s a new man in his ex’s house or if he has children with a new partner. For logistical, emotional and financial reasons, his loyalty to his previous children slackens once he has a child with a new girlfriend or wife. Nor is it likely, from the overlooked child’s point of view, that a mother’s new boyfriend or husband can fill the gap. There’s substantial research showing that stepfathers are sometimes worse than none at all.
These realities help explain the meager results of government marriage promotion programs. It doesn’t make much sense to encourage, much less pressure, a couple with no shared history, interests or deep affection to marry. At any rate, given the prevalence of multipartner fertility it’s not clear, as one scholar asked in a paper, “who should marry whom.”

In the past there were high numbers of  'shot gun' marriages. These may have resulted in some not very satisfying marriages but there seemed to be a sense that staying together for the sake of the children should take priority. The counter argument is that bad marriages are bad for children. I have a very unpopular view on the matter. A disastrous relationship should be abandoned but...Some people just need to try a bit harder. Marriage isn't a bed of roses.

But those same realities raise serious doubts about the accept-and-prop-up response to single-parent families. Increasing government largess could actually incentivize, or at least enable, parental choices that everyone admits are damaging to kids. The United States aside, scholars have found a connection between the size of a welfare state and rates of both nonmarital births and divorce. Even if you believe that enlarging the infrastructure of support for single-parent families shows compassion for today’s children, it’s not at all obvious that it shows much concern for tomorrow’s.
Exactly. David Cunliffe needs to read and understand this. His baby bonus has the greatest marginal attractiveness to existing or potential welfare dependent single mothers.

Most surprising, given the likely feminist sympathies of liberal advocates for single mothers, is their fatalism toward men. While it’s a safe bet that most in this camp wouldn’t hesitate to scold married “bastards on the couch” for not pulling their weight at home, they seem more than willing to write off unmarried fathers. Not only does this merely accept the personal loss suffered by millions of children living without their fathers; it also virtually guarantees a permanent gender gap — single mothers are inevitably competing in the labor market with one hand tied behind their backs — and entrenched inequality.

Not to mention, how does that "fatalism" towards men rub off on their sons?

So where does that leave us, policy-wise? Liberal critics of marriage promotion are probably correct that there are only limited steps government can take to change the way low-income couples meet and mate. But that doesn’t mean the status quo is the way things have to be. Not so long ago, the rise of teenage motherhood seemed unstoppable. Instead, over the past two decades adolescent births have declined to record lows. Researchers believe the decline was caused by a combination of better contraceptive use and delayed sexual activity. Both were grounded in a growing consensus — including by the policy makers, educators, the public and teenagers themselves — that having a baby when you are 16 is just a really bad idea.
The same is happening here though I'm not convinced it's about delayed sexual activity. Whatever the reason, the trend is positive.

It’s not impossible that Americans could reach a similarly robust consensus about having children outside of a committed relationship, which in the United States, at least, tends to mean marriage. But despite the growing list of center-left writers willing to admit that single motherhood is complicit in our high levels of poverty and inequality, that consensus still seems a long way off.
Let's hope more of the media and academia start writing about it here. It's about time.

Kay S. Hymowitz, a senior fellow at the Manhattan Institute and a contributing editor at City Journal, is the author of “Marriage and Caste in America: Separate and Unequal Families in a Post-Marital Age.”

(Hat-tip Bob McCoskrie for spotting this article and sending the link on.)


S. Beast said...

Not a single comment on abortion in the entire article. Surely this would be a better option?

"unlike their more educated peers, these younger, low-income women tend to stop using contraception several weeks or months after starting a sexual relationship
Initially I found this odd^^^ But after reading this http://amptoons.com/blog/2011/06/04/kathryn-edin-everything-we-used-to-think-about-the-poor-with-regards-to-marriage-is-probably-wrong/
I've decided to see if I can track down a copy of Kathryn Edin's book Promises I Can Keep. Sounds like a fascinating read.

thor42 said...

All of the talk about "inequality" is a complete waste of time.

There will ALWAYS be inequality in society - it is how nature is!
A few people are super-bright and become doctors and physicists.
The large number of people in the centre of the "bell curve" become various other professions. The ones
at the bottom become cleaners, rubbish-collectors or remain unemployed.

Inequality is *natural*. You CAN'T get rid of it.
All you can do is to encourage people to *make the most of their abilities* (whatever they may be).

Lindsay Mitchell said...

S. Beast

Thanks for that link.

Interesting, and I think bearing credibility.

Though I would caution that (as an outsider) working with disadvantaged people often exposes you primarily to the best motivated amongst them. Unfortunately there are very many people who drop below study capture - of both qualitative and quantative nature - whose behaviours and motivations are not as available for scrutiny. And I say this out of my own 5 year experience working with low income people.

For example, it is entirely believable that having a baby stops some females from continuing with drug-taking and partying. But it is also reasonable to speculate that it doesn't prevent others based on estimated levels of fetal alcohol syndrome.